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Category: Essays

A small selection of curated essays, memories, and opinion pieces on anything related to the kink scene and BDSM.

Good Pain vs Bad PainKink Concepts: Good Pain vs Bad Pain is a kinky sex guide covering everything you ever wanted to know about good pain and bad pain in BDSM
Extracts From a User ManualExtracts From a User Manual - A kinky sex blog about writing a user manual for a fuckbuddy
On Being Neurodivergent and KinkyOn Being Neurodivergent and Kinky - A kinky sex blog about the trials and good bits of being a neurodiverse kinky person
Sex with RobotsSex with Robots - A kinky sex blog about sex with robots and sex dolls
A Look at Poundland’s Sex Toy RangeA Look at Poundland's Range of Sex Toys - Sex guides and relationship advice from Lascivity
London HookupsLondon Hookups - a short BDSM essay about hooking up in London by Kristan X
The Power of Language: Euphemisms and Vulgarity in KinkEuphemisms and Vulgarity in Kink - A kinky sex blog about using language to expand your repertoire of kinks
On Meeting Lovers OnlineMeeting Lovers Online - A free kinky personal essay published by Lascivity
An Elegy for Porn on TumblrAn Elegy for Porn on Tumblr
The Joy of SextingThe Joy of Sexting - A kinky sex blog about the pleasures inherent in sexting