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Category: Essays

A small selection of curated essays, memories, and opinion pieces on anything related to the kink scene and BDSM.

Viagra: Some NotesViagra: Some Notes - A kinky sex blog about using Viagra as a young kinky person
BDSM is a Roleplaying GameBDSM is a Roleplaying Game - A kinky sex blog about treating BDSM and play as a roleplaying game
What a Spanking MeansWhat a Spanking Means - A kinky sex blog about spanking and the different things it can mean
Is Cunnilingus a Submissive Act?Going Down on a Woman - An exploration of domliness and cunnilingus paranoia
I Have No Sense of SmellOn Scent - A sex blog post about the scents and smells that turn me on
An Invitation to Be Radically InclusiveAn Invitation to Be Radically Inclusive - A kinky sex blog about welcoming people as part of the kink scene
The UK’s Looming Porn BlockThe UK's Looming Porn Block - If you live in the UK, here's why wanking is about to get somewhat more difficult
Fleshlight MusingsFleshlight Musings - A kinky sex blog about fleshlight sex toys
Sexy Stuff at the Fringe 2019Sexy Stuff at the Fringe - A BDSM sex blog post listing some of the best kinky, filthy shows at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival
The Dick Codes of Literary VillainsThe Dick Codes of Literary Villains - My informed interpretations of the genitals of various literary evildoers